Okay blogexplosion folks and all others, I am looking for advice and honesty. In a few weeks I will be looking to have my site redesigned and I am looking for opinions of what to keep and what to change. Please be honest. Do you prefer sites with multi colors, bright colors, incredible graphics, or just plain and basic. What type of design do you feel it is easier to click through and look at. Now I know that I won't be able to satisfy all requests but I kind of know what I want however ideas are always welcome.

*** addl notes: Thanks everybody for the comments, keep them comming, I am getting ideas of what not to change and things to change(like the brown). Again thanks for taking the time to look over my site and drop a comment.

Well instead of being one of those single people complaining on how much Valentine's Day sucks, or how jealous I am of others, I have decided to just wish everone a Happy day and may those of you in relationships or who has those "special" people in their lives realize just how precious that truly is.