DizzyScorpio

Hi there,

My boyfriend used to come into a shop where I worked specifically to see me, but I hated the job so much I never bothered to look at the customers (I was a rubbish sales assistant), so I never noticed him. For almost a year he'd detour to my shop to buy things that he didn't need off me, and all the time I never glanced up to look at him properly. Anyway, a few months later I saw him in a nightclub and he was lovely. I didn't know that he'd been coming to see me for ages before...I smiled at him, he smiled at me and we hit it off straight-away. There weren't any chat-up lines, we just talked to each other etc. Smiling and talking is the most natural way to meet people I think.

The thing is, I wasn't looking to be with anyone that night, I was actually just out to have a good time with friends. It always seems to turn out that when you stop looking, or care less, you find someone. Which isn't much of a help when you actually want to. Bugger eh?

Just by using the SWF title every single male woh is cuisng through will stop and read what follows. Asking men what we look for for each man who replies you will get a different criteria. I subconciously usually find the craziest of the crazy sout that probably isnt good advice.

That’s one of the toughest questions to answer, because everyone is so different and people can be frustratingly complex. The older I get, the less I understand.

Flirting got me lots of attention, back in the days when I was on the dating scene, but I met my man online one night when I was looking for some technical assistance with my computer.

"Life is what happens while you are making other plans"

MELI... I just can say onething at this time. I MISS YOU. Do you miss me?????....

I've kind of been wondering the same thing...where to meet a nice, normal guy?

I found mine online and I wasn't looking .We both were just ourselves ..I think that is the best way to do it .Just be yourself .You will most likely find Mr. right when you are not looking .I also think becoming friends first is the most important thing you could do .

I have to agree with the previous comment. I read alot of blogs by women who are in the dating zone, there is so much to be learned there. A personal favorite is http://baggagereclaim.co.uk and of course, the Bad Girls Guide.

i found mine when i was sharing mp3s online. We first had the strange connection of having so much in common. then we started talking at a more regular basis and realized that the things we have in comon arent the only ones which made us attracted to each other. and since we live in 2 diff countries, both curiosity of each culture tags along too...
i think its not how you act to meet your long time awaited partner.. but what you are that will eventually magnetize the both of you together. dont look for he might just bump on you one day without ever realizing that maybe he is one of your aquaintances already... think of this.. sometimes (most of the time if not often) the best partners or lasting relationships start out as friends...

I think intelligence and a sense of humour go hand in hand... if you can't get both in the same guy, you might want to keep looking...

Meli:I fully agree with you Les that is why I am still looking :-)